(Closed) How do I handle this? Future in law situation that wont settle itself

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

How do you handle it?  You don’t.  You are an adult, your Fiance is an adult, and as such you can do what you want with YOUR money.  If she has a problem with it, then that’s HER problem.

Honestly, it might be time for Fiance to talk with his mother about this- reassure her that you are spending an amount that has been discussed and agreed upon between the two of you, and that it isn’t really anyone else’s business, and if she has a problem she can approach him like a grown up and not blab about it to other people.

She can either agree with him and let it go, or she can look like the town fool with a stick up her ass.

Post # 4
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is ridiculous, she needs to keep her nose out. I just wouldn’t tell her anything about the wedding, that way she wont know what your planning or spending and get to do what you want Laughing

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