(Closed) Don't know what to expect ?

posted 5 years ago in Parenting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I answered on your other post, but it looks like you got rid of that one so I’ll put it here too.

Well, for starters, your ex-husband’s new wife is your daughter’s stepmother, like it or not that is her title. While she doesn’t have the same right as you, it would make things a lot easier and your daughter’s life a lot happier if you two can learn to get along. If your ex is unable to help pay for your daughter’s dancing classes, and his mother is willing to pitch in to do something nice for her granddaughter, I don’t see the problem with that. Seems to me like she is trying to do a nice thing for her grandchild, I’d let her. Of course that doesn’t mean she has ‘authority’ over your daughter, she isn’t her parent – but she sounds like a nice and caring grandparent. I’m kind of failing to see what the issue is here. You seem to be really afraid that someone is going to try to take control of your daughter away from you, but you have the majority of custody over her, and you are her parent, so that isn’t going to happen. But having more people involved in your daughter’s life who want to be there for her and care about ehr can be a good thing if you let it be.

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