Don't know what to think

posted 3 months ago in Waiting
Post # 2
Member
5050 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Why don’t you ask him?  I’d be concerned about what else he might be lying about, but maybe he just got mixed up.  Maybe his first payment back in Jan didn’t go through, or the ring wasn’t ready when they said it would be.  Unless he lies all the time, surely give him enough benefit of the doubt to have a discussion about it.  If he does lie constantly, then decide if you want to deal with that forevermore.

Post # 3
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4783 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

lookingatthestars :   Why are you staying with a man who lies to you?   Honesty and respect are the foundations of a lifelong healthy relationship.    With a liar you will be living in a house of mirrors, never knowing what is true and what isn’t.    You deserve far better.

Post # 4
Member
31 posts
Newbee

Wow a ring that much would pay for most of the wedding ! 

Post # 5
Member
236 posts
Helper bee

Maybe he just lied to you because he was too afraid to tell you the truth? You seem to constantly talk about proposing, so maybe (just maybe) he didn’t want to argue with you so he just ‘gave up’ for the sake of peace and quiet. 

I don’t think a proposal is something you can set a date for, although it hurts to have those expectations and have them shattered. But it’s not like he completely lied to you, he did put that deposit on the ring so you know it’s coming. 

Of course it’s not okay to lie to you, but as said, he could probably just have been afraid of an argument or otherwise, he didn’t want to disappoint you. 

 

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