(Closed) Don't know what to to. NWR

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What would you do?
    Tell him you talked to her but not the details. : (0 votes)
    Tell him everything. : (0 votes)
    Keep your mouth shut. You are in too deep already. : (5 votes)
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  • Post # 3
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    668 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Well I don’t really know why she felt it was neccessary to involve you, maybe she just had to tell SOMEONE and get it off her chest.

    I’d say if she doesn’t reach out to you again then stay out of it. What would you really accomplish by telling him you know? That’s only going to put an awkward strain on your relationship with him. His personal life shouldn’t affect your friendship.

    If HE comes to you on the other hand, that would be different. IMO she shouldn’t really be involved and neither should you have to be.

    Post # 4
    Member
    7750 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    No. From what I gather it was the guy who got them into the mess, not the girl. So help the girl, support her. Let the guy look after himself for a few weeks – he got them into it, he can get himself out. It’ll be way too complicated if you start talking to them both, and you could accidentally betray her confidence.

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