Post # 1
It’s not WR at all. I frequent another site and lately I’ve been SO fed up with the comments toward me from one member. I’m not saying names or anything, but today I was talking about how our dog has an upset stomach and I was worried about him. I forgot to say BRB because I called FH’s Dad (A dog breeder) Right away and asked him if I should worry and what-not because Moose has still been eating, drinking, and playing, but he threw up again. The last time was around 6:10 AM this morning. He ultimately told me to keep an eye on him and call him if anything changes, which I plan on doing. well, when I got back I was like “Sorry, I called FH’s dad because our dog has an upset stomach I think”. and was explaining why I didn’t answer her and the other members. (the site has a chat room)
Well, this member said to me “Is your life a whole crisis?” I just felt like it was so out of line and I feel so offended by it. I just didn’t say anything, but in my head I wanted to be like “Are you really a b*#ch or is it just me?”
I know we have ALOT of things going on lately with my sister being pregnant and me not being able to find a job, and now our dog isn’t feeling well. but that’s no reason to be a b*#ch to me. Am I wrong here?
Post # 3
Wow… that poster is totally out of line.
Post # 4
Definitely not. These sites are for letting frustrations out and getting support on life’s issues! If I don’t like a post, I won’t comment on it. There are some people who just won’t get along with others, and it sounds like she’s just a complete jerk.
You definitely took the high road by ignoring her, and I would just continue to do so.
Post # 5
Sometimes I say things trying to be sarcastic or silly to lighten the mood and I have to explain myself because people don’t take it that way. The internet is a hard place to hold conversations because body language is one of the main parts of communication. Without being able to see the other person it’s hard to tell where she was coming from. Don’t take it too seriously.
Post # 6
If you let comments received from strangers on the internet bother you, soon, everything in life will bother you. Just remember the old adage “Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me”. Silly, but true !
Post # 7
I’m trying really really hard to not let it bother me, I know I take things harder than others should (I have depression and no meds) but I just wanted to know that I didn’t do anything to warrant the comment onto me. I didn’t feel like I did anything wrong. *shrug*
Post # 8
Crisis and drama are all in how you handle them. I have a 94 year old granny with results of a stroke, a younger brother with liver cancer, another one with a brain tumor, and a dog that needs her luxating patella’s re-attached. But, hey- my fiance adores me, I have a job that keeps a roof over our heads, and Im planning a wedding- that eventually will get everyone that is still alive- together for a great weddin…