(Closed) Don't know who to choose as my brodesmaids!!?!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Maybe just stop at your sisters? Explain to the other girls that you thought it would be nice and easy with a small wedding party, but try to maybe incorporate them in other ways if you feel inclined.

I have about 3 friends that I have always thought would be in my wedding and then my cousin too. One of them I was a bridesmaid in theres and then in my cousins I was the Maid/Matron of Honor, but I am only having my cousin be my Maid/Matron of Honor. I dont live in the same state as them anymore and I just think it would be asking too much of them to be in my wedding. My wedding isnt for three years though, so who knows.. maybe ill change my mind. lol but thats how I feel for now!

Post # 4
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

We’re pretty similar, actually. I’m having a wedding of about 60 people, and was a little concerned about my bridal party. I knew my cousin, F, would be my Maid/Matron of Honor, she’s been my best friend since my birth (she’s 9 months older). FH’s two sisters had to be in it too. And then I wanted my friend, K, to be in it too. So that was 4. Then, like you, I started feeling guilty about my old friend, H, who like you said about your old friend, has been there with me through the big things and even though we aren’t as close anymore, I feel like she should be standing beside me on the biggest day of my life. So I’m asking her this week to be my bridesmaid. FH has an old friend that he wanted to ask too, so it worked out perfectly, 5 BMs and 5 GMs. I say who cares how big your wedding is. If you have enough people who love you to stand beside you, GO FOR IT. It’s your wedding after all! 

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