(Closed) Don’t like a groomsman

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I totally understand where you are coming from. I would be just as annoyed. Luckily, Fiance knew better than to ask his one friend to stand up, who I despise, and who almost caused us to split at least twice. If he had asked him to stand up, I’m pretty sure I would have been boycotting my own wedding.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@dfontaine07: Can you discuss with your Fiance the nature of this potential groomsman and that you’re concerned he will flake on FI/the wedding in general as he has done so in the past?

I had two people on my groom’s side that weren’t my favorite people in the world. It was very difficult to look past, but at least, thankfully, I knew they would be dependable for him.

I hope you can be honest about your concerns to your Fiance and perhaps shed some light on the situation gently. If he is confident in this friend showing up, just leave it at that and cross your fingers. Good luck!

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