(Closed) Don’t like my BIL.. need advice!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3575 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh my.  That kind of stinks.  Do you have to be there the whole time?  Can it be more of a brother bonding type of visit?

Post # 5
1765 posts
Buzzing bee

@Mrs. Alias:

I definitely would NOT RIDE with him EVER!!!  and I would Just ignore his snarky comments.   And plan to get away with the girls-whenever you can.  🙂

Post # 7
107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

he’s not worrying about being rude so why should YOU worry about it? plan some time with your friends. what’s the worst that can happen…. he’s a jerk to you? sounds like he’s already doing that so what have you got to lose? just tell your husband that you’re planning something with the girls to give them some alone time. 

Post # 8
1645 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My brother can be like that sometimes. He just thinks he’s always right and that he knows everything. The weekend I told my parents and siblings I was pregnant, he drove me to my g-ma’s to meet to go out to dinner and was driving 90, weaving in an out of traffic, and taking corners really sharp. I had to repeatedly ask him to slow down and won’t ride with him anymore, at all. He likes to make comments too. It definitely gets old.

Maybe talk to your Darling Husband about setting limits for his stay and try to split your time with them and spend some time away.

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