(Closed) dont like ring

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think you should talk to him and explain it the way you stated it here.  If you accepted his proposal without a ring then he obviously should know that you love him very much and want to marry him.  Since he rushed to get a ring for you he may not have realized that you might not like it.  Be careful not to hurt his feelings, but I think you should talk to him about it.  Maybe that ring could be traded in on another one.

Post # 4
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860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

If it is just borrowed from his brother then dont you still have to shop for one?

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@sweetpeony:   I think he borrowed money from his brother to get her a ring.

Post # 6
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2031 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@sweetpeony:  I think the money for the ring was borrowed.  

If he didn’t put a lot of thought into it and rushed, I don’t think his feelings will be hurt, at least not as much as someone who spent months custom designing something or anything like that.  If you really don’t like it, you should be honest and ask that you pick out something together?  

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

if he just got it recently there may be time to return it or exchange it still? just be honest. if you can’t be honest NOW, how will you spend the rest of your lives together?

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Try talking to him about it.  Say you would feel more comfortable in a different style.  You may be able to exchange it at the store he bought it from.  Bring this up before it is too late, or you may be stuck with a ring you don’t like.

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