Post # 1
Sorry this will be kinda long. Fiance proposed without a ring and then borrowewd mone from his brother to get me a ring unlike the ons i showed him i liked, I would really prefer a different ring but I dont want to hurt his feelings. I feel bad that I know he didnt put very much thought about it. HE knew I wanted a ring when I was proposed to but he still did it without one and then rushed to get this one. Any suggestions.?
Post # 3
I think you should talk to him and explain it the way you stated it here. If you accepted his proposal without a ring then he obviously should know that you love him very much and want to marry him. Since he rushed to get a ring for you he may not have realized that you might not like it. Be careful not to hurt his feelings, but I think you should talk to him about it. Maybe that ring could be traded in on another one.
Post # 4
If it is just borrowed from his brother then dont you still have to shop for one?
Post # 5
@sweetpeony: I think he borrowed money from his brother to get her a ring.
Post # 6
@sweetpeony: I think the money for the ring was borrowed.
If he didn’t put a lot of thought into it and rushed, I don’t think his feelings will be hurt, at least not as much as someone who spent months custom designing something or anything like that. If you really don’t like it, you should be honest and ask that you pick out something together?
Post # 8
if he just got it recently there may be time to return it or exchange it still? just be honest. if you can’t be honest NOW, how will you spend the rest of your lives together?
Post # 9
Try talking to him about it. Say you would feel more comfortable in a different style. You may be able to exchange it at the store he bought it from. Bring this up before it is too late, or you may be stuck with a ring you don’t like.
Post # 10
thanks so much everyone 🙂 I appreciate all your repsonses. Im going to talk to him about it I think