(Closed) Dont Marry Him and The Reasons Why!!!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mistress_anne:  +1 I was going to say the same thing, but you worded it much better :p

Everyone is different, and some people don’t prioritize sex as much as others. Lack of sex does not neccesarily lead to cheating. If physicality is a priority, then this may be the case for some. But it is not impossible to see two people who do not prioritize sex to find each other, love each other, marry each other, and be happy with each other. You can go through spans of having no sex or less than ideal sex, and still be so much more than just “best friends.” Communication is absolutely the key.

Also, I’d just like to throw in that addiction is not neccesarily a lost cause… people do recover. But I agree that that person does need to have the drive within themselves to get better and stay better. It cannot just be the burden of the spouse or SO of the person with the addiction, it has to be a joint effort between them. Just my 2 cents…

Post # 33
11472 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

Because of my faith (as well as some practical considerations), I do not believe couples should have sex or live together outside of a marriage relationship, so I obviously cannot and do not advocate on behalf of couples exploring those avenues prior to marriage.  However, it does makes sense to me why those who do not share these beliefs would be saying they are in favor of doing so. 

  I agree with many of your comments, especially this one:

“The wedding isnt nearly as important as what comes afterwards.


 “Marriage is a journey, not a destination. When you get married, you are making a lifelong commitment. *Every* marriage will have rough times and challenges. You both must be prepared to work on your marriage- it’s an ongoing process.”

 Extremely well said!


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