(Closed) Don't Want Him There

posted 7 years ago in Vow Renewals
  • poll: How would you invite a hated family member out of obligation?
    Don't invite him and refuse to discuss it with family. : (66 votes)
    92 %
    Invite him at the last minute and hope that they don't show up. : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Invite him and bear his presence. : (5 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 18
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    Wannabee
    • Wedding: February 2007

    Do not invite him no matter what kind of family drama it may cause. This is your day to shine and to be happy. How are you going to be able to enjoy yourself if you are stressed out that he is there? I am so sorry to hear that your family sweeps behavior like this under the rug. If he treats his own flesh and blood like this, saldy I can only imgaine the treatment his poor wife must endure behind closed doors. 

    You said yourself that you didnt get a wedding the first time around, THIS IS YOUR TIME TO SHINE! If people give you problems, do like you said, pretend it got lost in the mail and act like it’s no big deal. Stuff like really does happen all of the time! 

    Good Luck!

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