- Miss Red Velvet
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
I was asked to be a bridesmaid in a friends wedding (set for Nov 2012) a couple weeks ago. I hate to sound rude, but I would really prefer NOT to be in the wedding, but how do you tell a good friend no??
I’ve been in MANY MANY MANY weddings in the past (I’m at the age that all my friends are getting married). I was also married myself a couple years ago (I chose not to have bridesmaids and only a MOH). And it’s not about the money. To be honest, I just really love attending weddings as a guest. You don’t get to enjoy them as much when your’re in it (IMHO).
This board helped me out a ton during my wedding, I would love some feedback!