(Closed) Don't want to get married because of in laws

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 16
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7 posts
Newbee

This is one of the reasons I’m not having children. I don’t want my in-laws having this kind of control in my life.

Post # 17
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1435 posts
Bumble bee

Yikes this sounds awful. As long as your Husband is willing to stand with you and put up boundaries I think you will be fine. Just know you can’t contol what his parents think or their family thinks and that is OK. Just set some rules. 

– They can’t come visit your house, you will only go visit theirs. If they want to come visit you only meet them out somewhere like a park where you control when you leave. 

Just figure out what will make you happiest and do it. Move out of state. do what you gotta do. Make sure your future husband is willing to back that and you will be fine. 

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