- Kelly S
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Ok, this is REALLY weird, but I need some advice!
I have a small family. I haven’t seen/spoken to anyone on my dad’s side of the family since I was 1 1/2, so my mom’s side is all of my family. My grandparents had 2 daughters, my mom and my aunt. My aunt has been married for 35 years, and around 6 years ago, my aunt’s husband began sleeping with HIS DAUGHTER IN LAW (my cousin’s wife). Yes, his son’s wife. Banging. And they have 2 kids. It absolutely disgusts me, my mom, and my grandpa (aunt’s father). However, MY AUNT JUST ACTS LIKE NOTHING IS GOING ON!!!!!! She 100% knows he has been/is banging their daughter in law. Grose, I know.
So obviously I do NOT want my uncle and his daughter in law/lover at my wedding! I DO want my aunt and cousin. I thought about addressing the invitation to my aunt only, but last time she got an invite addressed to only her she got offended and depressed because her husband was puposely excluded (duh). She has very low self esteem and I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but I will be vomiting if that a**hole is at my wedding!
Does anyone have ANY advice on how I can make sure my uncle doesn’t come without making my aunt depressed?!?! Any is appreciated!
P.S. Everyone else has received their wedding invites but her because I’ve been delaying this due to the reason above!!!