(Closed) Dont you hate it

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Annoying. I know what you mean. My cousin made a HUGE deal about not being more included in my wedding planning but when I called to invite her to come bridal shopping with me the past 5 times, she’s been “busy”. Yell

Post # 4
2091 posts
Buzzing bee

I haven’t gotten that but I have the “oh my god we need to hang out asap” and then never return any of your “let’s make plans” texts/emails friends.


Post # 5
4653 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My mom told me to go “Pre-wedding dress shopping” Without her then she would come when i narrowed down my choices then was mad at me when i went without her… So yes i understand…

Post # 6
545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I haven’t had this happen yet, but I have had friends all of a sudden come out of the woodwork. Like people I haven’t talked to since high school (I graduated 7 years ago) saying “Hey! I see you are getting married, you better invite me!” Um no, you haven’t bothered with me in years why would I invite you to my wedding? Grrrr. The nerve of some people.

Post # 7
189 posts
Blushing bee


This happend has soon as I got engaged. People were quite upset that I hadnt selected my bridal party yet. I am slow to include anyone in anything. Some of the stuff I read on these boards is quite scary when dealing with non-family. 

Post # 8
4606 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Yeah. I had several several people that said they’d be there for me, but now that I actually need people, they are nowhere to be found.


@SoonToBeeMrsD: I had this happen to me today. I’ve been engaged for 7 months. It’s been “Facebook official” for about 4 months. I got a message from a girl I went to high school with who told me that she’d better be invited. I graduated from high school 3 years ago, I haven’t talked to her much since then. The only time she ever talked to me was when she needed something, like a ride.

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