double dipping ??

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I just asked my husband (we’ve never waited any length of time, if the mood strikes, we go for it!), and he said “that does seem kind of silly”. 

The vagina is self cleansing, and sure, there may be residue for a day or so but this is honestly the first time I’ve ever heard of this. 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I never realized that was a “thing”. Plenty of people have sex multiple times a day. 

So… he finds his own bodily fluids disgusting?  He thinks it magically disappears after 24 hours? Sometimes I am so confused by people’s aversions. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

NGL I’d be annoyed if D.H felt that way. Like, wait, so I am apparently supposed to be fine with your cum hanging out inside of me, coating my vagina until it clears, but the idea that it may touch YOUR genetalia momentarily until you have time to wipe up is so disgusting you’ll pass up sex?

Use a fucking condom, if that’s how you feel, dude.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

But it’s his own cum! Your husband seems to have some weird bodily hygiene hang-ups… 

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

motherbee33 :  I was expecting a very different question hahaha

But yea that’s not a thing. We always keep going – it’s extra lube!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

These recent sex ritual posts are starting to get bizarre. I didn’t know this was a thing but H and I don’t really have back to back sex anymore. When we did in the past this was a non-issue and something neither of us thought about. I always pee after sex as all women should to clear your urethra so there’s no bacteria and then would wipe whatever was dripping. I’m not on BC anymore and we aren’t TTC yet so he doesn’t cum in right now, he pulls out. But I’ve never had an issue with this. Your guy is weird in being okay with putting his load inside you and then being grossed out by it. WTF.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

motherbee33 :  You might want to brace yourself for the “he’s controlling” comments. I won’t be surprised after your two sexual aversion posts. As long as you are confident in your relationship you are good. We don’t know the nuances of your relationship, and I don’t feel as if it’s enough info to make that assessment IMO, but I would not be surprised.

As far as we go when it comes to sex, we wipe afterwards. (TMI ahead) I hate the smell of my juices and his spunk together. My husband is always the one to get the rag. He goes to the bathroom, washes his junk, and then brings me a warm towel. It’s a real superficial wipe, just to get any of the goo that might have leaked out. It gets sticky, and uncomfortable to sleep for me. Sometimes if we had a particularly aerobic session, we fall asleep in the stew. We may go again when we get up, but usually, we are once a day folk. I have never douched after sex, and tend to not douche at all unless I’m using just water and natural chlorophyll. I don’t use perfumed chemical douche. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

motherbee33 :  ummm that’s super strange that he’s repulsed by his own cum inside you.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

We have vastly different boundaries than the two of you, mostly pertaining to us not being repulsed by one another. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

your man is psychotic.

 

get help.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

 Ok, now I’m super curious — will he kiss you after you’ve given him a blow job?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

lovelyruby :  I bet not !

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2000

motherbee33 :  no me and my husband have been together 20 years and in the beginning would stay in bed all day 😍 I would go use the restroom as most women do to keep the bacteria away from the urethra but if my husband said that I’d be taken aback simply because it is his cum!!

I was thinking about my kids double dipping so reading the pist I was like heehee ! Lmfao!

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