(Closed) Doubts

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Not so much about him, but like other bees have said, about marriage in general.  I never put much thought into getting married, and making something so permanent makes me a little anxious.  But at the end of the day, he’s not the guy I can live with, he’s the guy I can’t live without.

Post # 18
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Bumble bee

I worried about being married to someone forever and being able to be happy forever and about everything we will face in decades to come. I still worry about getting through everything happily together, but there will be hard days and good days and it’s just part of the journey.

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@NAvery:  You really hit the nail on the head here. I couldn’t find a better way to describe it.

Post # 20
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I have moments of, ‘Is this going to work?’ 

But I know in my heart that I love him, he loves me, that he has been at my side through the worst of times, and vise-versa to the point I know that it will always work out. I think when I have “doubts,” more like questions about us I talk to him about it, and/or I realize that there is something going on in my life that I am projecting onto my fiance’ in an attempt to control what I cannot in my current situation, but in the end I know that I am meant to be with him, and my doubts are nothing more then little tests to try and get me to stray from someone I truly am in love with. 

Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Never.

Post # 22
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Never

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Nope

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

This is such a huge life decisions, how can I not have “doubts”? Mine have more been along the line of, “omg, I’m so young.” not “Do I love this man?” I know I love my Fiance with all my heart. I also know I’m only 22.

Post # 25
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Nope.

Post # 26
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505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@NAvery:  This exactly. At the end of the day, my fiance is my best friend and the person I trust most. Most importantly, I trust us and that he will, like me, work to keep us us forever. But it definitely is a big change in thinking that from here on out, it’s two opinions, two decisions, etc. Good thing we’re both ready to make it work! 🙂

Post # 27
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Never!

Post # 28
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

this time, absolutely none.

our previous marriages, yes.  we both had our doubts but thought it was just cold feet.  we should have listened to our instincts.

it was so different this time.  we are much older and wiser now.

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