Post # 17
Not so much about him, but like other bees have said, about marriage in general. I never put much thought into getting married, and making something so permanent makes me a little anxious. But at the end of the day, he’s not the guy I can live with, he’s the guy I can’t live without.
Post # 18
I worried about being married to someone forever and being able to be happy forever and about everything we will face in decades to come. I still worry about getting through everything happily together, but there will be hard days and good days and it’s just part of the journey.
Post # 19
You really hit the nail on the head here. I couldn’t find a better way to describe it.
Post # 20
I have moments of, ‘Is this going to work?’
But I know in my heart that I love him, he loves me, that he has been at my side through the worst of times, and vise-versa to the point I know that it will always work out. I think when I have “doubts,” more like questions about us I talk to him about it, and/or I realize that there is something going on in my life that I am projecting onto my fiance’ in an attempt to control what I cannot in my current situation, but in the end I know that I am meant to be with him, and my doubts are nothing more then little tests to try and get me to stray from someone I truly am in love with.
Post # 24
- Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club
This is such a huge life decisions, how can I not have “doubts”? Mine have more been along the line of, “omg, I’m so young.” not “Do I love this man?” I know I love my Fiance with all my heart. I also know I’m only 22.
Post # 26
This exactly. At the end of the day, my fiance is my best friend and the person I trust most. Most importantly, I trust us
and that he will, like me, work to keep us us
forever. But it definitely is a big change in thinking that from here on out, it’s two opinions, two decisions, etc. Good thing we’re both ready to make it work! 🙂
Post # 28
this time, absolutely none.
our previous marriages, yes. we both had our doubts but thought it was just cold feet. we should have listened to our instincts.
it was so different this time. we are much older and wiser now.