(Closed) Doubts about marriage

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@esplanfreedom:  I would be taking a step back if someone had doubts about marrying me and having a serious talk with that person. I wouldn’t want to go into a marriage with someone who wasn’t sure they wanted to marry me….

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@esplanfreedom:  Married him and he is now known as my ex husband.  However, he had doubts about marriage in general.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

No, I would not marry a man who said he had doubts about marrying me. I’m divorced and will try my best to avoid being divorced again.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

My husband had concerns about marrying me several years ago.  We worked through them, and neither of us had any doubts when we did actually get married.

Post # 7
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12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If he’s not over-the-moon excited to marry you, why would you want to marry him?

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

Would I marry someone who had doubts about marrying me now? No. But that’s not what you asked: you added “in the past”.

Can you clarify exactly what you mean?

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would take three giant steps backward from someone that had doubts about marrying me or marriage in general. I want to marry the man who can’t wait to marry me and sees his life as empty without me in it. And I am. 🙂

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It sounds like he’s having doubts, has issues with you moving ahead in your life (ie. real estate), has trouble communicating and is reluctant to commit. In my experience, when a guy wants to marry you, he’ll be so excited to do it that you’ll never have to worry that he has doubts about it. Marriage can be scary, definitely, but it would scare me if my guy seemed to have doubts about marrying me rather than marriage in general.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Doubts hath not a good marriage make.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I wouldn’t marry someone who had doubts, nor would I get married if I had doubts.  And looking at your post history, I hope you wouldn’t either.

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