(Closed) Do/will your wedding band match your SO’s

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Would you want/does your wedding band match your FH's?
    Yes... Of course it should!!!! : (22 votes)
    17 %
    No it's personal tastes that pick it! : (101 votes)
    76 %
    I hadnt thought of it! : (4 votes)
    3 %
    Why would it even be considered! : (6 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My mom pretty much freaked out when I told her ours won’t match, but we have very different tastes and I think that standard isn’t held by most couples now.  Mine is a thin band of white gold with diamond chips in it.  His is a tungston carbide band with a cool-looking woven center.  Very different, but both suit us.

    Post # 4
    3968 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @lisha_1988:  I think “traditionally” they matched– wedding bands would be the same, the exact same, just sized differently, but I think now that there are so many options for metals and styles, it’s not a big deal anymore for them to be different. Was your friend older/more old fashioned? I think my parents’ sets matched, but then my dad lost his ring, and my mom bought him an alternative metal one, yellow gold vs. tungsten, and it wasn’t a big deal!

    Post # 5
    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No. Mine is a sapphire band, and his is plain white gold.

    Post # 7
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

    Nope, and it wasn’t a priority for us. We both wanted rings that we liked and would be comfortable wearing. Darling Husband turned out being incredibly picky about his ring, so I’m glad we didn’t have any “matchy-matchy” requirements for him to meet! We may have been searching for a long time. 🙂

    Post # 8
    196 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We want them to atleast look similar. After all they are a outward symobolism of our union together! But I feel for most people getting married these days there are simply so many options. When our parents were all getting married you had pretty much one choice… yellow gold! lol OH how times have changed.

    Post # 9
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Mine does, but it is by chance.

    Post # 10
    5 posts
    • Wedding: April 2014

    All of the rings are from Tiffany’s, but that is where it ends.  His is a very sleek and stylish band, mine is blingy.  He didn’t want diamonds, so I wasn’t going to make him.

    Post # 11
    3968 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @lisha_1988:  What I think is hilarious is that, I never had a strong opinion on them matching…but when we were looking for my ring, he was like, oh, I guess I’m going to need to look at white metals only then.. I was like WHAT?!?! He’s like, aren’t they supposed to match? I think he’s a little excited now that he has all these options!

    Post # 12
    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Ours don’t match at all. We didn’t really care if they did or not. We picked something that went with my ring and he picked something that he liked.

    Post # 13
    1416 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I want a diamond band and I have very light skin. He wants all metal and he has fairly brown skin. I think platinum w/ diamonds would like ridiculous on him and a plain yellow gold band would look ridiculous on me, hehe

    Post # 14
    7339 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    The only things that matches is that it’s white gold, the rest doesn’t match at all.

    Post # 15
    229 posts
    Helper bee

    My SO wants our bands to be made from the same piece of metal. We talked to a jeweler about it, who said that they could use the leftover metal from one ring to make the second. SO is all about this. I think the symbolism is really cool– hopefully the logistics of getting it to work won’t be tricky (i.e. really restrict the bands we can choose from, etc.– basically, I’m worried about falling in love with something that will make “same metal” impossible!). 

    Post # 16
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Im classy and elegant and he is rough around the edges and colors outside the lines.

    That being said, Ours will definitely NOT match!

    I will get what I want and so will he, we have this saying, you be you and let me be me, this includes rings.

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