(Closed) Down and out

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2326 posts
Buzzing bee

it may be that he’s also stressed but doesn’t know how to handle it? so he goes into ‘i’m a jerk’ mode & takes it out on you?

this may be silly, but have you sat down & discussed? It may be that doesn’t realize how much it’s affecting you…

Post # 4
Hostess
7564 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It sounds like you guys are just going through a hard time. You’re stressed which makes it harder to communicate. You should take this as a time to work on your relationship to make sure that you’re ready to get married. 

Did he talk with you about quitting his job before he did it? It doesn’t sound like it. From this example and from him saying “I’m done” in the middle of an arguement, it sounds like he’s still operating with the mind of a single person. 

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