(Closed) Drama Drama … and dialogue

posted 5 years ago in Family
  • poll: If I were you I would
    Never speak to her again : (31 votes)
    42 %
    Ignore her , its your soon mother in law : (37 votes)
    51 %
    Find out what the %^&$ is her deal : (5 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2419 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I would just ignore her from now on. She is obviously bitter that she cannot come to your wedding. Hopefully it will all blow over. I would not feed into her negative energy any longer.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    That was your mother in law speaking to you like that? 

    Post # 6
    Member
    5958 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    ummm….your poll is inaccurate.  Ignoring her would have had to happen before all of that back and forth occurred…It looks like the two of you had a nice little snark fest…feel better?  Didn’t think so.  In the future, the smartest remark, is silence, and I get that she’s out of line, let her be, you can dislike the woman as much as you want, fact is, she raised your husband….and that’s his mom…so only thing left to do now is damage control.

    Sorry it’s going so badly….

    Post # 7
    Member
    839 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Oh yeah, just ignore her. She sounds like a crazy person. I can’t believe a grown woman would talk like that to her son’s fiance. Just stop responding to her messages, don’t give her the gratification of getting a rise out of you. That’s what she wants. You probably should have begun ignoring her as soon as she started cursing at you, but damage is done now, so just ignore her and don’t make it any worse.

    Post # 9
    Member
    839 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Milan21xx:  Nice. She sounds like a real treat to be around. Maybe it’s best that she isn’t there after all

    Post # 11
    Member
    2188 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    Holy shit I would block that woman and never talk to her again! If she messaged/emailed/texted/called me again I would ignore her. I cannot believe your Future Mother-In-Law talks to you like that!

    Post # 13
    Member
    2376 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    That’s not a mother, that’s a glorified egg donor.  No parent, no matter how angry should EVER tell their child to kill themselves.  It’s beyond disgusting.  Block her, ignore her and if you are ever forced to be in the same room with her, provide minimal but polite responses.  When she attacks, just say “I’m sorry you feel that way” or “Thank you for your input”.  Don’t give her any ammunition.  Assuming you talk to his other family members, if they ask about your relationship, just change the subject. 

    Be happy your family can make it and enjoy their company!  Leave the trash in the gutter where she belongs.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    She has serious issues! She said all that to you and then told her son to go kill himself…WTF!? I wouldn’t talk to her anymore unless absolutely necessary or unless she reaches out to you first. If/when she ever does I would expect an apology to you and your Fiance. Weirdo

    ETA: I would also block her on fb if you haven’t already

    Post # 16
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    3686 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You fed the troll. “let me tell you something Mrs Moore, I wasnt raised to speak to people like that so I wont respond but you need to learn to show some respect”

    You’re just giving her ammunition. Just don’t respond.

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