- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So, I know that I’m not really supposed to know all the behind the scenes planning for the shower and bachelorette…but a few of my bridesmaids have been cluing me in because apparently, there is a lot of dissent. My Maid/Matron of Honor doesn’t have a ton of experience planning these sorts of things, so she has deferred to another one of my BMs…who apparently wants to plan a pretty over the top shower. The only issue with this is that it is apparently going to cost a lot per Bridesmaid or Best Man and they have voiced their concerns to me over what to do. Some of the girls know each other better than the others, and some aren’t super comfortable speaking up. Should I say something? Or just give them advice on how to handle it among themselves?