(Closed) Drama, Looking for another Opinion

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: You can vote for multiple. Vote for what you think are the right ones.
    Kathy being a bridesmaid and Karl not going was completely fine. : (7 votes)
    21 %
    Kathy should have dropped out of the wedding as soon as Karl got kicked out. : (3 votes)
    9 %
    Karl should have gone to the wedding even though the guy getting married kicked him out. : (3 votes)
    9 %
    Shane should be invited to Karl and Kathy's wedding only because he's married to Sara. : (8 votes)
    24 %
    Karl and Kathy have plenty of reasons for Shane not to be welcome at their wedding. : (3 votes)
    9 %
    Sara should support her friend and be a bridesmaid even if Shane isn't welcome (just like Kathy did) : (6 votes)
    18 %
    Sara should drop out of the wedding if Shane is not welcome. : (4 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
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    3943 posts
    Honey bee

    I think we are missing a huge part of the story. Why was Karl kicked out of the wedding party and un-invited from the wedding?

    Post # 4
    Member
    4770 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I wanna know why karl dropped Shane.

    Post # 5
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    2394 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    @Bostongrl25: Agreed.  It would be helpful to know why Shane ended their friendship so abruptly.

    Post # 6
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    334 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @Bostongrl25:  Agreed!  What happened between Shane and Karl?

    Post # 7
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    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I agree with everyone else.  What made Shane ask Karl to step down?  It seems like there must have been something significant that caused that…

    Post # 8
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    1763 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I agree with pp, but also want to ask if Shane would even come if invited. If he dislikes Karl so much if might not even come.

    Post # 9
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    1843 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I agree, we need to know that final piece.  As it stands now, I think it’s more than okay to have Kathy in the wedding but I do think you need to invite Shane as well.  Leave it up to him on whether he wants to attend.

    Post # 12
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    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @CityGirlSmallTownBoy:  What was the fight over?  Was it just small things boiling to the surface and Shane was pissed that it ruined their vacation?  Or did Karl do something to seriously hurt or betray Kathy or that the whole group was uncomfortable with?

    Post # 13
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    2237 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @CityGirlSmallTownBoy: Really?  They had been best friends and roomates and he kicked him out of the wedding (when he was the best man) out of fear that he would get in an argument with his SO (who is in the wedding also)?  Why didn’t Sara kick out Kathy if the argument on the trip was that bad?

    Post # 14
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    6351 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Did Karl assault her? I mean we are def missing something.

    Post # 16
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    2260 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Well if that was the case I don’t really think it was Shane’s place to butt into K&K’s relationship and punish his behaviour by taking him out of the wedding party in the first place. But since that did happen and Karl has tried to work things out I think that he is totally justified in not wanting Shane to be there.

    With that said, I think it is rude to only invite one person epecially since they are already married so K&K need to decide if they could overlook what has happened and invite both S&S or neither.

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