(Closed) Drama over event dates…are we being inconsiderate?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 16
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923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Vineyard on Long Island

October is literally the most popular wedding month.

Post # 17
Hostess
1711 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Ugh.  I wouldn’t have responded to Ms. Petty Boop in the first place. 

Block her. She can take her ugly nonsense elsewhere. 

Post # 18
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440 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

She’s batshit crazy.  You did nothing wrong.  I would cut her out of my life.  

Post # 19
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10473 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Why on earth would you have to invite her to your wedding? You absolutely do not have to extend an invitation after this nonsense.

Unless I got a sincere apology very quickly I’d be done with these people.

Post # 20
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1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Jeezzeee…both parties need to grow up. Stop engaging her.

Post # 21
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4813 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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futuremrsl8 :  Block her and stop giving her the pleasure of your attention.   

Post # 23
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6991 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

This is hilarious. She clearly needs some therapy and a nap.

I would delete her/block her/ignore her as everyone said. Based on the things you said she was saying in her messages- she is clearly firmly wrapped up in her resentment and the story she’s told herself. But be ready- she is going to act a fool at an event that you all attend together at some point in the future. I wouldn’t be willing to run the risk of that being my wedding.

Post # 24
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16 posts
Newbee

No- she’s being completely unreasonable and ridiculous. Getting married and having babies are joyous times in your life & true friends would be thrilled to celebrate with you and your fiance, like is she serious? She sounds very self-centered to think that your events have anything to do with hers. Block & delete-don’t engage with her. But be prepared for her to blast you to all of your mutual friends because she sounds totally irrational & like she’ll want people on her “side”. Sorry this happened to you, but she is definitely in the wrong here.

Post # 25
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251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

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futuremrsl8 :  I find it bizarre that she’s upset that you’re having events after her actual dates. I can sort of see if those events fell on the exact dates since there’s a few. That might seem like you were trying to “copy” her, but these dates she’s talking about aren’t the same at all. 

She must be bored if she even pays attention to that stuff. 

Post # 26
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2167 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Girl, bye. You don’t need people like that in your life.

Post # 28
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9402 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

I didn’t read much past the first few paragraphs because you obviously aren’t basing your life events on theirs so she just needs to get over it.

“no, we do not make major life decisions based on you.. “

and stop replying after that cus.. she’s gone off the deep end and there isn’t much you can do 

Post # 29
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Block and unfriend. Just because your Fiance and her husband are BFFs does not mean you have to be.

Post # 30
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5399 posts
Bee Keeper

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futuremrsl8 :  Block this B ASAP. What the actual hell. We actually share a wedding anniversary with one of my husband’s closest friends and that was on accident and because the only other date was the weekend of Halloween and I wasn’t feeling that. She’s outta control. Show your husband the messages. He can hang out with his buddy but you are allowed to stay away from the B. What a bunch of nonsense she is. 

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