(Closed) d.r.a.m.a.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@impatientlypatient: Heehee, drama llama. At least the picture is fun, if the drama is not!


I’d say stick to your guns, and make the decision early. That will give her time to calm down. It sounds as if you’ve put a lot of thought into this.

If you’re really concerned, you could consider doing a Maid & a Matron of honor… but this might cause conflict if they’re not on the same page.

Post # 4
2691 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Just tell them. It’s your wedding and you don’t have to justify your choices. When they have their wedding, they can make themselves maid of honor if they want, lol.

Post # 5
8146 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

my sister is Maid/Matron of Honor (by default)  and shes trying to choose the rest of ny party. i nipped that in the bud and told her to back off. maybe try that! its your day, choose people you want to have your back!

Post # 7
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yeah, I wouldn’t make any decisions yet. I’d wait until you’re much closer. I’ve seen so many times on here about how people ask early and then regret it. I’d just tell them since it’s a long engagement you’re not planning anything like that yet and leave it be. If they keep assumming it’ll be them, that’s on them now.

Post # 8
193 posts
Blushing bee

If it had my chance again I would definetly NOT make my decision this early. Things change. In two years ppl really can change. I would wait at least a year and then decide.

Post # 9
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think you’ll definitely run into drama if you choose your bridal party based on who has money to throw parties and can help you plan the wedding. That’s not what being a Bridesmaid or Best Man is about, it is about choosing those that mean the most to stand next to you as you are married.

The topic ‘d.r.a.m.a.’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors