- 5 years ago
My BIL’s second wife just found out she’s pregnant (the last time was a false positive). The family doesn’t know yet (I just saw her post it on another board, and its legit). We have all been dreading this, hoping they would wait (only married 5months) or nature would make them wait a little longer so she could bond with her new Step kids (ages 6 and 7). Whom she refers to as ‘BIL’s kids’ and is openly irritated by, and we know she will blatently favor the new baby, and that Brother-In-Law will let her. (He who will be a complete ass to me, but let his wife treat him, his family and his kids like garbage)
My plan is to ignore her, and do whatever I can to be around for the kids, but I’m just…annoyed? disappointed? Mad? Definitely Sad. It’s difficult to watch and hear about (MIL LOVES to tell us about them) We can’t say anything bc I am sure everyone will just think I’m jealous (because to SIL, every woman’s goal in life is to have kids) even though we are enjoying our DINK life.
Not sure what i’m looking for here, just wanted to vent a bit until I can figure out why I let this bother me so much.