Post # 1
I had a dream that I was talking to BF about something wedding related and then my mom told me that I had to stop reading any wedding stuff because it was stressing him out and pressuring him. Later in the dream I was reading a blog (NOT WeddingBee) and he checked on me to make sure I was living up to my promise.
Post # 3
I’ve had a couple of dreams this past year about us acutally getting married – I was so dang happy in the dreams that it was happening… only to wake up and realize it was just a dream. I’ve also had horrible ones where the stupid waiting anxiety at its worst comes out, and I finally shared it with him after waking up crying this weekend. Usually, if I have a bad dream about “us” I try to hide it, but the stupid things can affect my mood if they are really vivid. This time I just asked him to hold me a few minutes because I’d had a bad dream, and ended up telling him that I have re-occurring dreams all the time where he’s telling me he doesn’t care if I’m around, and I should just go away. That’s how not being married makes me feel – but I wasn’t able to enumerate that to him this weekend. I know this is from being the last (practically) girl in our group to be unwed who’s been in a relationship longer than just a fwe months/weeks, but it makes sleep not a happy time.
Post # 4
Deep. Has he or your mom said something about it in real life?
Post # 5
glad it was just a dream!
Post # 6
EVeryone has bad dreams, just as long as your man is there to hold you!
Post # 7
I asked him last week if he felt pressured when I talked about wedding things, and he said a little. So I’ve been really good about not mentioning it at all since then.