(Closed) Dreams

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It’s normal. You really can’t always control or predict what happens in your subconscious mind. You don’t need to feel bad about it. You can even feel good about it if you want. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

Happens to me from time to time.  I really don’t think it means anything.  Now if I was spending my whole day thinking about those people, talking to them, asking to meet up with them, etc, then that would be an issue.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I actually just watched a PBS documentary about this yesterday.  It’s normal, and often vivid dreams are the dreams from REM sleep.  Scientists think that our REM dreams are more connected to our emotions, because that part of the brain is activated.  It’s normal to dream about having sex with other men (or women, if you’re into that also… not as common if you’re not).

You can’t control it, so don’t worry about it! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Dreams are just that: dreams. They are a random mesh-up of various topics our daily lives, often in no way we would think when awake.

Yes, on occasion I’ve had sexual dreams about someone I was not “with”. I’ve also been in various people’s bodies in my dream, and sometimes I’ll start out with the view of one person and by the end of the dream I’m seeing it through someone else’s eyes.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It happens to me at least once a week. Usually it’s an ex, sometimes it isn’t. I like having them ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had a sex dream about one of Fiance old roomates and I was SO not attracted to him at all.

It was the weirdest thing and I was totally freaked out lol

So, you’re not alone ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

All the time. either an ex or my boss lmao which I am not attracted in the least but we work alot of hours togeher lol

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

yes, one with my FI’s best friend and business partner. We actually get along great in real life and share a lot in common. It’s like I’m a girl version of him and my Fiance found me lol. VERY WEIRD. Anyway, I kept that to myself. Obviously.

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