- 7 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
I really hate dreams that have me wake up feeling like they are real or will come true before too long. When my Darling Husband and I were dating I had a dream that his ex would convince him to break up with me and every time I had that dream we would break up. It wasn’t because of her but she was always around when it happened. When I was pregnant I had the same dream but in it I was pregnant and he still left me to be with her so she could have his child. She was texting him when I was about 6 months along and she tried to get him to break up with me because she “was jealous of me and wanted to give him the son he wanted” but he stopped talking to her because he had given her pleanty of chances and never took them. Since then we have had a child and gotten married and she has moved to a different state and got married but is back in town while her SO is deployed. Well, today when I got home from work I was really tired and decided to try to take a nap while our son was sleeping and I had another dream.
This time she sent me a text saying “just a heads up but in two days we are going to hang out and I don’t really want you around. It’s going to be an I and S day.” (I being my Dh and S being his ex) I tried to call her but she blocked my number so I couldn’t reach her and so I went to find him and saw her standing close by. Naturally I went to talk to her to tell her to back off and leave my husband alone. We started talking and she realized how I was feeling but she never said she wasn’t trying to hurt either of us again and she didn’t say she would leave him alone. In walks my hubby and he instantly goes and sits in front of HER and I ran over to sit by him but he pushed me away. I ran out of there crying and they both searched for me and tried to talk to me. He said that since it has been so long since he saw her he wanted to see if she looked any different and that I shouldn’t have gotten upset because he sees me every day and she said that if I wanted she would draw a picture of our son to make up for it. (She doesn’t really draw so I’m not sure what that was about) My only thought right then was, “no way are you going near my son.”
Soon after I woke up and I felt terrible. I realized in my dream that she looked different than she really does. IRl she is a bit on the bigger side and, though she has some nice traits, she is pretty average in looks. In my dream she was really thin and stunning. I have no idea why I would see her like that in my dream but knowing how pretty she was in the dream made me feel even worse because I’m always feeling average at best. I don’t really know what to make of it but at least I got it off my chest and can hopefully forget about it and move on. Thanks for reading it if you did.
Edit: My Darling Husband hasn’t talked to her in months since congratulating her on her wedding and hasn’t recieved any messages from her since she got to town except when she drove past our house and saw him outside she posted on his wall that she saw him but that was it.