(Closed) dreams about ex? -vent- share?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I haven’t told anyone this, but I have. And it was also someone I knew for years and years. I woke up feeling grateful and thankful for the man lying next to me. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Creiddylad:  But yeah I was also slightly horrified when I woke up. Haven’t told a soul!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I have. I am so happy with my fiance, and they aren’t romantic dreams, but just dreams where we talk or something. It’s so odd, because I wouldn’t even want to talk to my exes! haha

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Yeah I’ve had dreams about exes and been disgusted upon waking. They’re just dreams.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

I have also, and they seem so real. I wake up feeling like I did something wrong!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I had a terrible dream last night about my ex.  I dreamt he got married on the same day as me, and his wedding was waaaay better than ours.  (He arrived in on an elephant!)  

I was also getting married that same day, but it wasn’t clear if I was getting married to FH or if I was getting married (against my will) to my ex as his 2nd wife.  It was a horrible dream, and I woke up all depressed.  Ugh.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have before!  and ironically, like you, right around the time my Fiance and I were talking seriously about getting married.  I think its totally normal.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Ms. Blue:  yes, totally! and I feel guilty in the morning too! which is weird, because I never felt that way in my previous relationships… I’d have those dreams and think nothing of it. I think because I wasn’t fully commited.  now that I am fully monogamous for the first time (and happy!) i feel bad if I dream about someone else. so strange and interesting how our subconscious minds work…

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I started having very vivid dreams about 2 of my ex boyfriends a few months ago – just when we really got in to planning the wedding…    gotta love how the brain works 😛   One of them was from when I was 15. I woke up thinking “REALLY?!” I hadnt thought about him in years. So strange.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I hate to admit this, but there is one ex that I always have sexual dreams about. They are repulsive when I am awake and understand what’s up, but while I’m dreaming, it’s a different story. Not sure how to make that stop… Gross.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

It makes sense that it’s happening when you’re discussing marriage & such. SO & I will be getting engaged in the near future & I’ve had a handful of dreams about my most recent ex (some of them where we seem to be dating). In no way do I want to date my ex again. Nice guy, but we just didn’t click, you know? I think it’s just reflection, but turned into certain scenarios b/c hey, dreams are weird, man.

I was a little “wtf” about it after I had a couple. Felt almost guilty, but I have dreams about all sorts of people. It just happens. Plus, It’s kind of cool to wake up, look over @ the SO, & know it was just a reminder that I upgraded to the whole package. 🙂

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

If its finished once, its finished… There is no turning back or dreaming about him/her!

Do not ruin your life with these thoughts!

 

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

oh my, im so glad im not alone in this! I have had dreams too and wake up really mad at myself and just feel blah……

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