(Closed) Dreams about ex's?

posted 6 years ago in October 2012
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@grace0228:  I’ve had dreams, but I really think it’s a self-esteem thing for me. This particular boyfriend I wasn’t always very nice to and I worry sometimes that my fiance will get tired of me and want to be done like I think my ex did. My ex and I have mutual friends and he’d always act really weird towards me when we’d run into each other, and it sometimes made me wonder if I’d be worth it for anyone. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@grace0228:  funny you post this i started having dreams of my ex and it freaked me out. i started questioning my relationship.

and i would have never been hapoy with my ex i was never in love with him. it was the way i left him and we never got any closer or at least i dident. it was a very cut and dry breakup i refused to speak to him after i found out he was talking to someone else while we were together she was a “friend” shes his wife now. but i hold no bad feelings i wish them the best. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

OMG this just happened to me the other night! It was a crazy dream, too.  My ex was back in town and we ran into each other on a night my fi was ut of town.  My ex tried to get me to make a deal with him that we could have sex once a year, because we had such great sex (we really did). And I went through this whole decision-making process in my dream. I decided that I would never be able to do that, so at least I’m faithful ti fi even in my dreams, but it was really weird. 

Honestly, I think that dream really and truly was about me dealing with having only one sex partner for the rest of my life.  I’m okay with it, but I guess I still have to mentally process it.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I also had a dream–also last week–about a guy (not a real one, just some guy in the dream that didn’t represent anyone from my life).  PG and I got into a huge fight and broke up right before the wedding, like a week before.  And then I married the guy instead of PG, at the wedding PG and I planned.  It seemed acceptable/no big deal in the dream at first.  But then at the reception, I looked across the room at my new husband, and I realized that he would never look at me the way that PG looked at me.  And then I realized how bizarre it was for me to marry this guy, and I kept thinking NO NO NO PG is supposed to be my husband! It’s only been a few days since we broke up! I can’t believe I did this! And now PG will never take me back because i went off and MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE. 

It was tragic.  But again, my love is true in dreamland.  I think this one was really about letting go of the idea that there is someone else out there.  I definitely do not doubt that PG is the right one for me, but I think it’s only natural to have some part of your brain telling you there might be someone better.  I think this dream really ended that for me.  It was a horrible dream, but it paid off.

 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@littlegreenleaf:  What your ex did was about him, not you.  You are worth it to someone! The proof is on your finger ๐Ÿ™‚  If you sometimes have trouble feeling confident in yourself, then feel confident in your fi.  He knows what he wants, and he’s happy.  So just go with that.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I did. I had been having crazy dreams about my ex from about November until July! It was terrible but I had a friend who pretty much summed it up for me. I hadnt seen my ex in about 3 years and his sister (who is a great friend still) had asked me to come to her wedding this past July. I started having dreams about him when she has sent me a STD back in November. I guess I was pretty nervous about seeing him again so it triggered multiple dreams of him a month, I was going insane! They have since stopped after going to the wedding last month. 

I saw the ex and he is just as effed up as when we stopped talking a few years ago so no loss there ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I had dreams about my ex like 3 years ago. They were reoccuring EVERY NIGHT! every night every night every night, for a straight month or two. I can’t remember exactly how long but it was LONG! and it really made me mentally… depressed. Like why was I having dreams about this loser? I ended up meeting up with him and talking and then talking with my current SO about it and eventually they stopped. Thank god.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel so guilty when I have dreams like this! LOL! I usually tell my Fiance so we can joke about it and it makes me feel better. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

I dream about ex’s all the time. Even the insignificant ones from eons ago. They have never made me feel guilty…but you are not alone! I think it happens more than we all even know. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I had a dream about an ex a week ago.. it was the weirdest thing.. he was yelling at me and saying that we were supposed to get married.

Mind you I dated him in H.S. many years ago and only for a year…. didn’t really even know what “LOVE” was back then.. but discovered infatuation.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

ive totally had this happen and more than once! its soo creepy, because in my dreams they always try to get back together with me but Fiance is never in the dream. ughh, they’re exes for a reason lol!. Im super happy with Fiance so no idea where the hell these dreams come from.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Missus_LLC:  agreed.. Im super happy with Fiance as well so I dont know why my dreams are making it seem that I’m making a mistake??? lol

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

lol! i dont think its like that exactly, maybe as a break up there was some unresolved issues?

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