(Closed) Dreams about your exes?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh my gosh!  I JUST had a dream about my ex last night and they (dreams about exes) really weird me out!  Last night’s was about an ex that had wanted to marry me, I wasn’t ready, and then he was with someone else, I WAS ready, and then he married her (pretty fast).  There was never any closure- so the dream part- was us finding one another again and (he left his wife or something), and Darling Husband wasn’t even in the “picture” for whatever reason, and we just realized we were right for one another :/  Really weirded me out.  He doesn’t even talk to me anymore, we used to be best friends but I am sure his wife doesn’t let him.

I guess it comes up for me because it is still unsettled.

Post # 4
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641 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

There are 2 ex’s of mine that tend to float into my dreams sometimes.  One is a kid that I dated my freshman year of high school (and my 14 year old self really thought I would marry someday) and the other is someone I dated my freshman year of college (who was older than me, a prominent member of our church, and ashamed to tell people that he was dating someone who was 18.  When I was home on break, I caught him with a HS senior who he wound up dating after we just stopped dating.)

Now, I have no clue why I dream about the HS boyfriend, and it’s kind of a running joke with my longtime friends that I do.  The one from college I know is because we never really broke up.  Things just ended and then a few weeks later he was totally public with this new (younger) girl.  The self esteem took a serious hit from that one, and there was never an apology or an explanation or anything.  He hurt me pretty deep down, and although I am beyond happy, I guess it just creeps into my subconscious sometimes.

Both instances are super annoying though. 

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ugh I have dreams where my super creepy HS boyfriend pops up. Gross. Sometimes they’re dreams where I’m trying to get the heck away from him, and sometimes they’re dreams like we’re still together or he’s supposed to be Darling Husband. Freaky. I hate them.

I also have dreams about my ex I’m still really close friends with. Those are always nice ones and I’m over all the hurt feelings, so when he pops up it’s more like a nice stroll down memory lane than an ick factor 😉

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I never dream about my first Boyfriend or Best Friend, but my second (later ex-husband) comes up once in awhile. It always has something to do with being cheated on.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yes Ive had dreams about exes and I hate them!! I always  wake up feeling guilty and weird even though Ive done nothing wrong!!

Post # 8
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261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 1996

yes, a few times…. one time it was that my ex kissed me. i ws horrified when i woke up. i didnt tell anyone, but you guys now..

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