(Closed) Dress code help

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1736 posts
Bumble bee

Formal usually means the same as Black Tie. Semi-Formal or After Five means that tuxes are not required, nor are long dresses. An evening wedding (after 6 PM) would still dictate dark suits for him, and a cocktail dress for her. Daytime semi-formal events mean a suit for him and an appropriate short dress or dressy suit for her. Cocktail Attire means short, elegant dresses for her and dark suits for him.

I put “black tie optional” on my reception card (though some Bees disagree with this practice). I felt that I didn’t want to chance someone feeling out of place because they “didn’t get the memo!”

Post # 4
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree with @Kikiski:.  Put it on the reception card.  As for the website part, in all honesty, I’ve only actually ever checked out two wedding websites in my life – and that was because they asked me what I thought of it.  I would want it some place where you know all of the guests will see it (=. 

Post # 5
882 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I have seen “casual elegance required,” and thought it’s a nice way of saying “hey ya’ll please wear something nice and appropriate to my wedding, but you don’t have to dress in formal long gowns or tuxes!” 

Oh, and it should go on reception card


Post # 6
4124 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I love the dress code “suits and sparkles” it’s fun but still implies formal 🙂

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