- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
I just want to share that after all my second thoughts, never ending dress shopping, and stressing, it is now done.
One morning, my mom saw me stressing over dresses online and she made a comment about how I should just stop looking. I then sat beside and very calmly, as sweetly as I can, said “But I’ve found the dress I want”. She goes “Which one?”. I said “It’s the one you don’t like.”. She became quiet and said, “It’s really up to you. You’re the one wearing it”, without any tone of judgement. I decided to show her a picture of the dress covering up the skirt, and she said, “If you really like the skirt, why bother covering it up. Don’t cover it anymore”. So happy! She’s finally accepted it, and it’s because I finally was able to say with all certainty that this is what I want.
So happy! Thank you all dear bees! You’ve all been so helpful and supportive. I’m so happy to be part of this.