- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
So I’ve been going on and on about this dress situation. Here’s the original dress I wanted, I loved loved loved everything, The lace, the bling, and the cute little buttons going up the back. but It was a trunk show, so it was two sizes too small, and I just need some reassurance. I’m now paying for this dress on my own, because my Mom said she’d pay for it, Changed her mind because “it was too much” and she only changed her mind after my grandparents asked how much it cost (Hello it’s none of their business!) and then turned around and had me to go to some lady’s and basically forced me into getting a dress I hate (It was only $150)
-when it comes in, they always look better in your size, right?
-it would look way better with some spanx on I think, I had a bustier on and it pushed all my flab out the bottom so you can see my stomach in the dress.
-Can I ask the company to make it dropped waist? That’d be awesome.. The company’s website is down right now 🙁 The waist line is a little high on me, but I’m also about 5’9, When they order a dress, do they order it with your height too? I’d assume they would, because I think the waist looks weird because i’m so tall. PLUS It’d help if the bustier wasn’t pushing all my junk out the bottom, LOL.
-I plan on removing the spaghetti straps, I think it’d look way better without them..
Then I have this dress my mom bought for me, and I hate it, It’s boring, and so not me. I have no idea what to do about the second dress because my mom is holding it hostage in her house. I still haven’t told her I want a new dress yet but I’m afraid she will be offended if I dont wear it but my FH keeps telling me to go get a new one, and if she has such an issue that he will give her the 150 dollars the dress cost to get her shut up so i’ll be happy. When I compare the “mom dress” to every other dress I get dress envy because it’s SOOO boring and not gorgeous. I feel bad because I didn’t say No, but I find it really hard to say No because she was paying and My grandma went with us and was talking about how she prayed last night that I’d find a dress and my mom said she would buy it anyway because I might like it in a week – well I hated it in a week. I just felt ALOT of pressure to buy a dress that day so I just did it without thinking because I was getting stressed out by my mom and all her dress shopping antics she’s pulled. (see above.)
Anyway, Attached pictures, and hoping to hear from some people that ordered their dresses! I’m sorry for the super long dress related rant but I’m stressing over getting a new dress, I’m afraid of offending someone.