(Closed) Dress regret, shoe regret, wedding theme realization. PLANNING TOO EARLY! (VENT)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3785 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I agree with you…. the other dress is beautiful but it was a lot of dress for you. Your new one is really fitting for your theme and looks beautiful on you! I think it’s more flattering as well–love the neckline on you!.

You can tell just by comparing the looks on your face in the two pictures that you made the right decision.

Post # 5
416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

You look gorgeous in your new dress! 


What size is the dress your selling? Could you tell me details? 🙂

Post # 6
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

You should post your other dress in the Classifieds section 🙂 I think both dresses are gorgeous and your inspiration board looks beautiful! I love it!

Post # 8
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I say take a break from planning and think everything through for a bit.  Good luck!

Post # 10
651 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Where did you get those teal shoes? I am looking for something similar

Post # 11
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Your new dress and shoes are just beautiful and suit you very well!


I’m only one month into my 2year engagement and have already bought a dress and just about to buy a second one hehe so don’t feel bad 😉

Post # 13
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I don’t think planning this early is silly….where I am if you don’t book your venue at least a year and a half in advance you won’t get it!


You can definitely change your mind, it’s YOUR day…just make sure it doesn’t keep making you spend money!

Post # 14
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I bought my dress 8 months into a 2 year 3 month engagement. Its really really difficult not to do more. I just wanted to chime in and say I think you can wear either pair of shoes with your new dress.

Post # 15
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Rouquine:  I agree!!

Give yourself a break even if it’s just two weeks. i too changed basically everything…so it does happen but you might be making yourself crazy! 

Post # 16
6123 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well, as someone who bought TWO dresses prior to my current dress, I would say just sit on your ideas for a while.  Maybe even take a week off from all wedding thoughts/research.  Revisit your ideas.  Yes, tastes change, budgets change, whole ideas changed.

And if you’re all wedding talk all the time, it might drive your Fiance batty.

I planned a whole wedding and had to undo it all just this week because my dad is terminally ill.  What a great reminder that not all things in life go how you plan and it’s key to just be flexible. 

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