- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
I’m going dress shopping for the first time in 2 weeks!! I am super excited and have lined up 4 different shops to hit. My Maid/Matron of Honor is flying in for the weekend to look at dresses with me. She is really great and I’ve known her forever.
Initally I was planning to just bring her along. I personally like shopping alone, but trust her opinion on style so much, plus we are so close, and I really value her opinion.
I didn’t ask the other BMs to come to the first shopping trip, because I was hoping maybe I could split up the dress-shopping activities. Since my Maid/Matron of Honor is out of town, I was thinking that the other BMs could come along to another shopping trip, or maybe to a fitting or something like that, just so that one person didn’t feel like they had to be dragged along to everything.
So today I found out my Maid/Matron of Honor broke up with her LT boyfriend, which totally sucks! But she sent me this email that kind of indicated that she would have a tough time being happy during the dress shopping. She’s still coming, of course. I feel bad for her and definitely understand how it’s hard to be happy for your friends when you’re going through a breakup.
Now I am wondering if I should invite another one of my BMs to come along? Just to alleviate some pressure from my Maid/Matron of Honor having to do all the opine-ing. Do you think 2 girls would be ok?
The more the merrier? Should I just keep my original plan?