(Closed) Dress shopping with non-bridesmaid?

posted 4 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
472 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Drury Lane Oakbrook


uponthewaters:  Yes, you can have her go with you without making her a bridesmaid.  I found that it was actually better to have a friend who was not in my bridal party because she was less invested in my choice, so she gave much more objective opinions.  


Post # 3
719 posts
Busy bee

I invited 2 friends dress shopping on separate occassions.  I did ask 1 to be a bridesmaid 4 months later, but I didn’t ask the other person.  I think it’s totally fine.  Dress shopping with you is an honor unto itself and doesn’t need to be exclusive to bridesmaids.

Post # 4
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

My mother passed away a few years ago, three of my wedding party live across country and the one Bridesmaid or Best Man that lives in my town couldnt find a sitter.  So I took the two girls with me that I almost asked to be in my wedding.  Figured it would make them feel a part of everything and special.  And it turned out great.

Post # 5
1288 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015


uponthewaters:  I had a very good friend come with me who is not a bridesmaid. She was just excited to be there and be apart of it. I did ask her after to be a PA, but thats not because she came shopping with me.

Post # 6
5226 posts
Bee Keeper

uponthewaters:  Why not? You can take who ever you want!

Honestly, I think all the activities that happen before the wedding have been built up to be way more than they are. The special time is the the day of the wedding, but people now feel like everything associated with the wedding has to be a super special once in a life time experience. It is okay is you want to dress shop without your BM’s, and okay if the BM’s can’t make dress shopping/fitting appointments. Don’t feel bad in the least!

Oh, just make sure you get lots of pics to share with us on WB! I love dress posts 

Post # 7
498 posts
Helper bee

You can go shopping with whoever you want. I’d at least invite her to the wedding Lololol but I don’t think it’s necessary to ask her to be a bridesmaid… Unless you want to of course 🙂

Post # 8
236 posts
Helper bee

I went shopping with a friend to get her dress, she was having a Destination Wedding and I wasn’t going. I was happy to go with her and never once felt resentment or anything for not being asked to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

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