Post # 1

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Helper bee
hey bees!
i’ve come out of hibernation to say..
*in my best jerry seinfield impression*
“what is the deal with all these threads on cheating?”
it seems a little suspect, if you ask me… or maybe its because we are now out of the “holidays”— aka thanksgiving to valentines day…
Post # 3

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Busy bee
I don’t find it suspitious and I’m not trying to add the the drama but I will admit I am getting a tad annoyed, like com’mon it’s a WEDDING FORUM not a “omg I think he cheated on me and I don’t know what to do” forum…I’m all for supporting people but yesh!
Post # 4

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Bee Keeper
It’s kind of giving me a complex.
Post # 5

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Buzzing bee
There is one where the bride cheated, I dont know maybe its the same part of me that loves Days of Our Lives, but it has kept me entertained today
Post # 6

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Newbee
ZOMG I thought I was the only one who thought this. This is meant to be a (mostly) happy place not a sad one
Post # 7

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Busy bee
so how many shots am i behind? lol
Post # 8

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Bumble bee
@cr6zy: You should be just about on your ass by now.
No I am with you. I heard through the grapevine that the “snark board” created to bash us got shut down, so I would NOT be surprised if this is their newest game. Pretty sure we’re getting punked.
Post # 9

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Busy bee
lol that explains why i can hardly see
Post # 10

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Honey bee
This is the second thread on the issue since yesterday afternoon, and a few of the anonymous bees came out to insist on their legitimacy. I agree with them that this kind of finger pointing is unnecessary. They are going through something very difficult and you just made it a drinking game. I am so not one of the people who thinks we need to be sunshine and unicorn poop all the time, but this sort of thing is just mean.
Honestly, though I do not think these cheating threads are trolls anyway, I am really sick of people blaming any amount of troll activity on the snark board. Their IPs are banned here, and they have their own website (not shut down) so that theory does not hold. I am not just saying this because of your comment, LittleMissMango; it was the theme of the previous thread as well. The snark board has become a scapegoat. Guess what — there were trolls before the snark board, and there will continue to be trolls with them gone.
Post # 11

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Helper bee
It’s very easy to poke fun and get annoyed with it, but when you are the one it’s happening to, and believe me, no one sees it coming, this is a place of support.
If you don’t want to read the threads, don’t read them. But don’t be mean and kick people who are already down.
When I found out that my husband was cheating, I started doing research on infidelity. Know what I found? 1 out of 2.7 married men will cheat, and 75% of their wives never find out. Consider your odds carefully.
Post # 12

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Blushing bee
Can someone please explain to me what a troll is?
Post # 13

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Busy bee
@kittybee: Thank you for asking this!
Post # 15

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Busy Beekeeper
Okay threads like this really annoy me, so what if there are trolls or if some of the threads no matter what the subject are not real. Calling someone out on it and especially making a “drinking game” out of whether a person’s thread or real or not is really immature and uncalled for.
Post # 16

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Buzzing Beekeeper
@Sassygrn: what is immature about it? Trolls need to be called out so other people dont invest their time responding to troll posts