(Closed) Dude… I just found out my ex cheated on me!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
196 posts
Blushing bee

Laugh it off, sounds like they deserve each other and you’re with someone who makes you happy. But if it were me, and I had been in contact with him at all at this point, I would definitely break all ties.

Post # 4
587 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@indigo_love:  Haha this is a funny story! It KINDA happened to me. I know my ex cheated on me during some ‘break’ we were on but he never really confirmed it and I didn’t really want to know because I had kind of done the same blah blah. After the fact, his best friend said to me, “don’t be naive” and that was that. Now that I’m typing it out, I’m getting kind of mad because he lied straight to my face!! LOL – whatever, just bumps along the way, right?

Post # 5
8361 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Get tested and be glad you parted ways 🙂

Post # 6
1716 posts
Bumble bee

Yeah. I was more irritated that the chick he cheated on me with was just ignorant as shit. I was at the bar one time and they were there and I walked past him to go get a drink and he handed me a $5 and asked me to grab him a beer?

I came back with it and was about to hand it to him and she said I was a good little N word. So I spilled it on her, and the bouncers kicked her out.

I was just FLOORED someone would ever say something like that and was all like “Dude? Really? With that? I’m glad We broke up.”


Post # 7
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

j_jaye  + 1

just be thankfull!!!

Post # 8
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@j_jaye:  <–this.  If she was an escort, and he cheated while you’re together, get tested right away!

Post # 9
1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Are you sure his ex was a woman?

Post # 10
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

OMGOSH, did we date the same guy? The girl my ex cheated on me with wasn’t someone he ever dated but someone he constantly told me he hated. Later, I found out he was talking trash about me to her and then talking trash about her to me so that we would never be friends and I wouldn’t find out. Guys can be seriously stupid sometimes.

Now he is dating someone who literally looks like a man, and I’m with someone wonderful. Just laugh it off and appreciate what you have even more!

Post # 11
122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If she was an escort, you better be booking it to the OB/GYN!

Post # 12
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Good riddance to bad rubbish.  I know it’s hard not to take it personally but you shouldn’t in this case.  And yes, get tested ASAP.

Post # 13
3830 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ya i found out my ex cheated after the fact. What bothered me most was people knew and NO ONE TOLD ME! 

Always go with your gut. 

Post # 14
788 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

What a douchenozzle! Definitely get tested and let karma deal with him.

Post # 15
75 posts
Worker bee

It sounds like you dodged a major bullet with him! Be thankful that you came out on the better end and have an amazing guy now!

I completely understand feeling dumbfounded though, but if you can find a way to laugh it off, you’ll be so much better for it.

Post # 16
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

haha wowwww that’s crazy! i hope you wore a condom! How’d you find out?!

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