(Closed) Dude, people suck sometimes.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Barn at Valhalla

Wow, that is a really strange and extremely hurtful situation. I don’t really have any advice, but to focus on the people who do love and support you…and maybe hide those sisters on FB! Hugs to you and hoping you feel better soon!

Post # 4
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46382 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

One thing we do forget is that although we are born in the same family, and by default love each other, doesn’t mean we have to like our siblings behavior.

It’s ok to say and feel that what they are doing is inappropriate. Don’t take on their problem as your own.

Yes, it is hurtful to the family, but they are the ones with the problem, not the rest of you.

If they were adult enough to discuss their concerns, you could responsd to them. They are not.

Post # 5
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yeah .. that sucks … but i’ve found out that sometimes you just have to write siblings off … it’s horrible but they are toxic.  I’d unfriend them on FB so i didn’t have to deal with the crap.  It’s such a shame when things like this happen, but seriously you’ll make yourself miserable.  I haven’t talked to my oldest brother three times since 8th grade, can I say BLISS? yes .. he’s toxic and mean and scary.  It sucks but that’s the way it is.

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