(Closed) Dumb question about erections

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I dont know if its common ( i have not walked through a mens locker room), but i would think it has more to do with the feeling of the warm water or something. It could totally be a physical reaction and he doesnt even realize its happening. Sorta like how they always get one in the morning??

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It seems to happen often! lol

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Beccka:  Haha!  Not a stupid question.  But – erections aren’t always indicative of anything sexual going on in a man’s mind – it can be more of a sensory, physical “arousal” or stimulus thing.  You know, like when our nipples get hard when they’re exposed to cold air?  It’s the same kind of thing.  🙂

And, yeah, all guys are like that.  Your guy is completely normal. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve never seen it happen to a guy in the shower unless he’s thinking about something..

 

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Never seen my man have this problem.. his actually hides after a shower.. but he takes a SUPER SUPER SUPER SUPER hot shower, like so hot I’m surprised he doesn’t melt.. and well.. when he comes out it kind of turtles from the drastic temperture change.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Hmm, the water might feel good.  Also, I know my guy usually has fun with himself in the shower – if yours does sometimes, maybe he associates shower time with sexy time?

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

hahah mine is the opposite… I guess he relaxes too much in the shower? He could be completely into it and FULL attention… but as soon as he steps in the shower it goes away. Needless to say we don’t do shower sex much/like ever because of this. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I know my husband, um, cleans himself very thoroughly.  And he can’t help but get half a stiffie from that.  🙂

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t really see that from Danny…sometimes like, a half erection but that’s it. I’m assuming it’s because he’s cleaning and touching it. Erections can be caused by a myriad of things, not just sex or thinking about sex, and every guy is different, so who knows? I’m sure it’s normal though. 

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’ve never seen Darling Husband get an erection in the shower (or have one post-shower) unless we’re purposefully having sexy time during a couples shower.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

@jenilynevette:  “when he comes out it kind of turtles from the drastic temperture change.

This is hilarious.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Beccka:  hahaha….. maybe you’ve just trained his penis well with all the tandem showers!!! His penis must equate showers with sexy time!!!

 

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