(Closed) dumped twice, feel sooo stupid

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
132 posts
Blushing bee

I am so sorry that you’ve had to go through this, hun 🙁 It must feel so horrible and I am hurting for you. But please, walk away. Walk away from this man who has been stringing you along and making you promises that wont be followed through on. You need to focus on YOU. You need to start looking after yourself and focusing on what you want out of life, I know it’s easier said than done. It’ll take time, but whatever you do, don’t let him push back into your life. It’ll only end in more heart break. He clearly needs to do some very serious thinking about his situation in life. Leave him be, it’s over.

I’m very sorry about how much you’re hurting right now but soon enough you’ll see it was the best decision for you. Find someone who KNOWS they want to be with you, who sincerely loves you and wants to make you happy. Good luck and feel free to PM me if you want to talk.

Post # 4
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

This relationship sounds like something out of highschool. Be glad you are done with it.

Post # 6
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

It doesn’t sound like either of you we’re truly interested in being with each other. How old are you guys?

Post # 7
9950 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ya agree with the other Bees… this doesn’t sound much like a “mature” relationship.

Think things will over time prove to be better off for you without him than with him… you will grow, evolve get stronger & wiser.

As a side note…

I am not a fan of the third world country the Dominican Republic on a good day… I would never advise anyone to consider buying a piece of jewellery there… let alone a Diamond !!

Hope this helps,


Post # 9
847 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

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@Vikstar:  +1. It seems so fickle and drama filled. 

Post # 10
296 posts
Helper bee

@lostsad:  This is ridiculous, and you do not deserve that. Hell, he DEFINITELY doesn’t deserve you! 

You know for sure now what he is made of, and there is no question in your heart what “could be”. Don’t feel stupid; instead, take this as a lesson learned. Sometimes we need to prove things to ourselves, and he proved that he is an ass who is undeserving of you. Period. I am very sorry you went through this, but if you weren’t sure before–you are now. Move on with your life. Take care of yourself. You will never be able to find the RIGHT ONE, when you are listening to the empty promises of the WRONG ONE.  One day, he will be damn sorry while you are looking and feeling your best in the arms of the person who has been made for you anyway.

Take care.

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