- 6 years ago
SO has been teasing me for nearly 2 months about a present he got me. at first he said i would get it in a month, but that didn’t happen, and when i asked him about it he said i’ll get it in another month (now it’s only a couple of weeks, march 5), because it wasn’t “the right time” yet.
i don’t know what the gift is, but in my mind it is connected with getting engaged. i would be shocked if it was a ring (in a good way) because he has said it will be a year and a half (until after he gets a police job and then after the probation period) until he pops the question. but he might just be throwing me off, because it takes at least 5 months to get a job and then the probation period is actually 2 years (yikes!)
i’m not sure why but i feel like the gift is somehow connected to getting engaged, like when i get it i’ll have a better idea how long it’ll actually be before we get engaged. i sure don’t want to wait 2 and a half (more) years!!!
i’m about to explode with anticipation! it’s so hard every day to not bring it up (again). he made a comment the other day that he’s surprised i haven’t found it in our apartment… GAH! i’m even more confused because he has said that it is “not that great” but how does that make sense with needing perfect timing???
advice/thoughts to help me get through the next few weeks??? (or more, in case he doesn’t actually give it to me by then)