Post # 1
I hate myself. I dont know how I let myself get so big. All I see is fat arms and belly flub. I never got the baby weight off and I just didn’t realize how awful I look. Here is a link to the blog and that has a link to all of them but I am just so sad.
Post # 3
I think you’re really pretty.
Use these to movitate yourself to lose some weight (and keep it off!) before the wedding.
Post # 4
I’m not sure what pictures you’re looking at because I just took a peek and you are stunning! Seriously, you have gorgeous features. See the beauty everyone else sees!
Post # 5
First of all, your face is genuinely very, very pretty. And honestly, I don’t think your body is near as bad as you think.
But as PP said, if this isn’t want you want to see, use it to motivate yourself to look and feel the best that you possibly can. Just please, do NOT use it as a tool to beat yourself up! This is a happy time, and you should try to find a way to give yourself the freedom to enjoy it.
Post # 6
@selena12312: Giiiirrrrrlllllll, you CRAZY!! I think you look great! Beautiful photos.
Obviously, if you are not happy with the way you look, an outsider’s opinion doesn’t really count, but I think you look great in these photos!
Post # 7
I went to your link and was not expecting what I found- you look gorgeous. Stop hating on yourself!
Post # 8
I think your pictures are beautiful!! The vast majority are wonderful. There’s a few that are not the most flattering angle, but that happens with everyone!
I love the positively THRILLED look on your FI’s face in almost every picture. Clearly, he adores you!
Post # 9
Those are pretty amazing pictures! My mom has something she’s always told me when I was down about these things, or anything really. You are your own worst critic.
I know I am, especially when it comes to my arms.
Post # 10
Not what I was expecting either!
Post # 11
You are so beautiful! I love your pictures!
Post # 12
Wow, you are very beautiful!
However, if you are not used to the extra baby weight, and feel uncomfortable, just use this as motivation to exercise a little more/choose healthy foods/eat slightly smaller portions.
Make small changes first, and gradually increase from there.
I know it can be kinda annoying when you have gained weight, you feel uncomfortable in your own body, and people just keep saying “shut up, you look good!” It happened to me, and while I understand that I still look pretty good 20 pounds heavier, it is not where I want to be or where I feel good (20 lbs on my 5 foot frame looks like a lot more!)
But seriously… you are SO PRETTY just the way you are now. Your Fiance is a lucky guy!
Post # 13
Are you kidding me? There is so much love and emotion in those pics! You are beautiful and are glowing. BUT if you’re not happy with yourself, take charge!! You can lost the weight, if you put your mind to it!
Post # 14
Your pictures are beautiful! Please don’t feel down about yourself.
Post # 15
I guess I am just frustrated, albeit with myself. I lost 190 pounds got preggo and now sit 30 pounds over my lowest weight. I have tried and tried and can’t get it off so I get frustrated and I eat. The cycle is awful and I cry a lot. That you all for the kind words. I needed a place I could be honest. I know I need to work harder if I want it off but I am out of ideas.