- 8 years ago
I think you look beautiful.
you look so beautiful !!! but i can totally understand your frustration. when i gained weight i was feeling the same way, i did not even wanted to go out, or take pictures. but the most important is to feel beautiful in the eyes of your fiance, and on the picture we can clearly see that he find you beautiful ! me what i did is that once i realized how my body changed, i started a healthy journey, in eating right and exercising. now i lost the weight and i am much more comfortable in my own skin.i think you should just do the same and just leave bad habits. but you are a reallllyyy beautiful women already !
@selena12312: after reading your post I expected some huge heffa who was obese overweight, you have nothing to worry about!!!! Your gorgeous!!!!!!! And look so nice in those pics, this just proves that women are so much harsher on ourselves than anyone else and we see our own flaws that noone else can see. Your beautiful!!! Don’t doubt it!
You are beautiful and your love shines through!
Like others said, if you are unhappy with your weight, take it day by day. Just make small changes. Sweat once a day! You’ll get there. We all have “issues” with our appearance, but we really need to learn to accept how truly beautiful and unique we are (I’m talking to myself here also! ;)).
You are gorgeous! I think your pictures look absolutely beautiful!! :]
Um, I see a gorgeous woman with a stunning smile, not sure what you’re talking about. I don’t see fat and flub, I see proportional curves!
But of course, everyone is allowed to not feel good about the way they look, so I second the PP. You should use these (beautiful) pics as an inspiration to lose weight before the wedding. But know that if you don’t lose a single pound before then, you’re still going to be beautiful 🙂
I really was expecting to see something different. You are gorgeous! Beauty doesn’t have to be a size 0.
Honestly? You look gorgeous. And I can tell that you are so happy and you look comfortable in your skin in your pictures. You’re so happy and in love that it doesn’t even matter. 🙂
Don’t let your weight ruin the pure joy that you quite obviously already have! Think how many people of the “perfect weight” (whatever that is) are desperately wanting to be as happy as you are. Don’t give that up for something so meaningless…
Aim to be healthy. If you feel you haven’t been taking care of yourself – start doing it! You deserve it. But don’t put your worth and your happiness into your weight when you have so much more going for you.
Those are seriously beautiful photos, you can see the love you guys share.
You both look so happy and in love! Yeah there’s a few pics that aren’t the most flattering of your body but in general you really do look lovely. However, I know an outsider saying it isn’t going to make you feel it. I know that when I saw the photos from my master’s graduation in mid-May I almost lost my mind… I thought I looked unbelievably fat. It sucks… but it did givve me motivation to get off my butt and try to lose some weight. Still, it sounds like you’ve already been working hard. Did you say you lost 190 pounds??? Jesus! Congrats! Just remember that we will always see flaws in our body. Even when I weighted 80 pounds less than I do now, I still felt fat… it’s all relative. *hugs*
I can totally understand how you feel. I felt the same stay about my epics, and now the same about my wedding pics. Looking back, I wish I would have done something about it, but I was super overwhelmed At the time. What about getting a personal trainer, or changing up your exercise routine? Are you breast feeding?
With that being said, I think you are seeing something different than what we are seeing. you mentioned that you previosuly lost 190 lbs. do you think that maybe you are looking in the mirror, or pictures in this case, and see a prior heavier you? i think some of the photos are not flattering, but some are very flattering!! You don’t have to use all of them, just use your favorites.
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