(Closed) e-pics disappointment…so sad

posted 8 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I really don’t think they’re that bad. I saw maybe one where it wasn’t a great pic and that was the sleeping one. There’s quite a few nice shots in there and maybe you’re just feeling a bit self conscious – or because of they’re of you you see every flaw. From the outside looking in there’s some lovely pictures of you and your Fiance there. Try to see the good in them and enjoy them!

Post # 4
53 posts
Worker bee

i like them.

the ones with the globe lights and brick building are cool

Post # 5
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i see lots of pics of a beautiful happy couple.  we had some bad ones too.  i think there’s bound to be a few of those.  plus those are just the ones your photog posted; i’m sure there will be more that you’ll like once you see all of them. 

Post # 6
446 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I can see what you are saying a bit about not being happy … but I don’t think it’s anything you could have done. You really looked beautiful, natural and happy.  I think the lighting was a bit off, either you were in direct sunlight or it was too dark, and the angles were off- there were some where the backs of your heads or only portions of your faces were caught on camera. That being said, there were definitely some I LOVED. The waterfall, walking amongst the trees, with the waterfall.  

Regardless of what we bees think, you are not happy. I think you should at least mention something to the photographer.  Maybe they can reshoot for you.  And since you are not happy, it’s good that this was an engagement session and not your wedding.  If you decide you really are not happy with your photographers, maybe you can use this as a reason and rebook with someone else. 

Post # 7
169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I really like the 5th and 14th one!

The one where you were sleeping wasn’t so bad to me.. especially in sepia!


Post # 8
541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I didn’t like my epics at first. I didn’t look at them for a few days and when I went back realised I was just too nervous/anxious at first and they were great. Give it a few days. They are nice.

Post # 9
252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011


I agree with much of her post. It doesn’t matter so much of what we think, if you’re unhappy you should bring it up. 

I also wanted to add, you said you spend time looking at other photo shoots and comparing. And I’ll be honest, I think your photos are of equal quality. So chin up darling. (Hugs)

Post # 10
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I LOVE your photos!

The one on the stairs with your arms around your Fiance is so sweet and you both look so happy and pretty/handsome. The gum wall one is epically awesome, you both look adorable and in love and – surprise! Gum Wall! That and the Pike Street Market sign photo are so very Seattle and you both look great in them.

I also really love the ones with the water in the background which are amoungst the first few. 

These look to me like such great, natural, happy and sweet photos. You will always be your own biggest critic, but your friends and family will love them!


Post # 11
1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

I understand your disappointment but for the record, I think your photos are great!! From your post, I was expecting something terrible but I think there’s some really beautiful shots in there…

I will say that 40 pics is a very low number, we did an hour shoot and got over 200 shots, so I wonder if your photogs just put a select few up and are going to send you the rest?

Post # 12
510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I like your pics, especially the ones on the steps. But I was in the same boat as you – got my e-pics back, and hated them. So I ended up booking a second e-pics session with another photographer, and we loved those e-pics so much that we ended up changing photographers. In the end, I’m happy we did e-pics so we could get a preview ahead of the wedding.

Post # 14
2867 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t know, maybe it’s because I always see the best photos on blogs but I think they’re a bit lackluster as well.  However, there are a few that are great (ABP_3741 and ABP_3719).  It just seems like there are so many from afar–the close ups are the best (ABP_3941 would look great if it was closer); I think you and your Fiance should write down some things that you would like different during the re-shoot.  Also, 40 shots is really limited. I’d also choose alternative locations–for example, I’m not too fond of the background APB_3436 and APB_3452 (those are great pics of you two but the background makes it look busy–with the rust colored piping and chainlink fence).  I’d also maybe ask to see the ones your photog didn’t send you.

EDIT:  So I looked through the website, he really likes taking pics from afar.  As for quality, they’re the same as his other photos.

Post # 15
2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

Hmmm. I actually think that the two of you look great, but I agree that your photographer didn’t do you justice. There are a lot of photos in which the light and/or composition are awkward or just off, like this one and this one. He doesn’t know how to make you stand so that unflattering shadows aren’t cast. For example, this one would be so cute if your hair wasn’t casting weird shadows on your fiance’s face, and if your whole face wasn’t cast in shadow.

I agree with@beekiss2 that a lot of them are too far away.In many of them, the two of you look lost in the background.

A lot of them don’t look like professional photos, they just look like photos that someone took with their point and shoot.

But I think that the two of you look adorable, especially here and here.

Are you good with Photoshop? Or even something free like Picnik or Gimp? If you could touch up the photos yourself, maybe crop them differently or fix the lighting, you might feel better about them.

Did you book this photog for your wedding, too? If so, you should sit down with him and be specific about what you liked and didn’t like for your e-shoot, and make sure that he does everything you want him to.

But, believe me, it’s NOT you two – you guys looked great..

Post # 16
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I think your photos are nice, but only a few shots really stand out to me as special. My feeling on an e-pics session is that it is a way to get to know your photographer and his/her style. If you aren’t happy with the pics and/or the direction (or lack thereof) you got at the session, I’d advise yout to address this with the photographer or try someone else. The photographer’s approach/style won’t actually be much different at the wedding, unless you ask for what you want. And you don’t want to be anxious on the wedding day about your pics. That shows up in your face.

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