- 3 years ago
Hi ladies, just feeling sad and can’t really talk to anyone about this IRL!
Darling Husband and I haven’t been trying for long but have had sexual issues since we got married. I’ve written about it on the marriage boards before but it’s even harder to deal with now that we are TTC. I wish it was a matter of pressure to conceive, but it’s been going on for months and long before we were trying. I’ve tried keeping him in the dark about fertile times but I’m really starting to think its a physical problem because nothing is working. dH is going to see a doctor about it so we can hopefully get some answers, but goodness, this is difficult. He’s only 28 so it seems so rare – why is this happening to us?! I want a baby so bad and so it’s disappointment every time we fail at sex and every time my period comes around and reminds me that it didn’t happen month after month.
The strain is just getting to me and I know I can’t blame him or be mad at him, but it’s hard to know how to handle these feelings. I try to be optimistic and assure him it’s fine and then cry by myself later. Had anyone else gone through this and have any wisdom to share on coping?