- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
I’m new around here, but I need to share and sounds like you ladies will understand.
Boyfriend or Best Friend and I have been together for almost four years. I’ve been ready to get married for the last 3 1/2 lol He has been claiming that he’s not ready and that he didn’t have the money. I’ve tried hard not to push and nag and become ‘that girl’, but as I’m sure many of you know, sometimes that’s really hard!
For the past few months, it has seemed like he was coming around, but I was trying to not read too much into it. Before Christmas, he started asking some fairly obvious question (like my ring size).
Last weekend, I mentioned that I was going to the mall and he said he wanted to go too, which was odd cause he hates the mall. Once we got there, he told me that he wanted to go look at rings. 🙂 I was soooo excited, but I’m continuing to try to keep my cool. That’s where you all come in – I can let out the crazy here! lol
That was last weekend and I know he’s getting a big bonus at work next week. We are also leaving on a cruise vacation the follow week. I’m hoping the plan is to propose while on vacation, but maybe he has other things in mind? I haven’t even told anyone that we went ring shopping, cause I don’t want to answer all the questions if he doesn’t propose on the cruise!
In any case, after four years, it’s really nice to know that we are on the same page and he’s finally thinking long term.